Mother is not a person; it’s a title that can only be earned. The title is earned not simply by giving birth, but by continually being a mother throughout the life of their kids. Hence, it is important for the kids to keep their mother happy.
Life is full of challenges and some tough decisions that have lifelong impacts. One of such decisions is to get married to a suitable girl. So, the question remains, what it takes in a girl to be a ‘suitable girl’? A suitable girl is someone to whom maa will not be able to say NO. What I exactly mean is, if maa says NO to a girl of my choice, I’ll have to work harder to convince maa, but on the other hand, if the first reaction of my mother is “Not NO”, I have fairly good chance.
With this major factor in mind, I have categorized all the girls in this world into two camps, girls in one camp are those to whom maa should not be able to say NO, whereas I really don’t care about the girls in other camp. “Maa na naa bol paae” is actually a scale which must be used to check with a girl if they qualify or not. It’s a secondary question whether maa will change her mind later or not, but first reaction should not be NO.For example, if I show a very decent and pretty picture of Sunny Leone to my maa, and express my desire to get married to her; my mother’s first reaction will not be NO (Just an assumption, please do not try this at home). Later she may ask me about what she does, and will change her mind. But the point is, that the first reaction will not be NO. In my head, after clearly defining what “Maa na naa bol paae” means, I have seen significant changes in my life.
Now when I look at a girl, I question, is she pretty enough so that “Maa na naa bol paae”? I have started doing this already; have you?
